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Ak m\u00e1te","datePublished":"2019-10-07","dateModified":"2019-10-07","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.agb.sk\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.agb.sk\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a231d13c7dfc9c75f2343f864438f5ab9c0bfebd1aa37dfd3bb16118c04f838c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a231d13c7dfc9c75f2343f864438f5ab9c0bfebd1aa37dfd3bb16118c04f838c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"agb.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.agb.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a307696_w16849_t1572085482.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.agb.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a307696_w16849_t1572085482.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.agb.sk\/ked-laska-nie-je-laskou\/","about":["L\u00e1ska"],"wordCount":448,"articleBody":"V\u00a0nasleduj\u00facich riadkoch by som sa r\u00e1d prihovoril v\u0161etk\u00fdm rodi\u010dom, ktor\u00ed miluj\u00fa svoje deti tro\u0161ku viac, ako by mali. Ak m\u00e1te deti, tak si teraz asi hovor\u00edte, \u017ee nie\u010do tak\u00e9 nie je re\u00e1lne. Verte, \u017ee je. E\u0161te hor\u0161ie, v\u0161ak b\u00fdva to, ak sa rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 l\u00e1ska zmen\u00ed na vydieranie. To u\u017e o\u00a0pozit\u00edvnych citoch, ve\u013emi hovori\u0165 nem\u00f4\u017eeme. \u00a0Aj dospel\u00e9 die\u0165a, je die\u0165a \u00a0M\u00e1m kamar\u00e1ta, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 po tridsiatke. U\u00a0rodi\u010dov u\u017e ne\u017eije stra\u0161ne dlho, no i\u00a0napriek tomu, maj\u00fa na neho n\u00e1roky, ktor\u00e9 by boli prehnan\u00e9 aj v\u00a0base. Vol\u00e1 im asi tak p\u00e4\u0165kr\u00e1t denne. To im ale nesta\u010d\u00ed. Na n\u00e1v\u0161tevy chod\u00ed taktie\u017e pravidelne, no ani to nie je dos\u0165. Neust\u00e1le vym\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00fa nov\u00e9 a\u00a0nov\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. Raz je to napr\u00edklad to, \u017ee si nevzal modr\u00fa, ale zelen\u00fa ko\u0161e\u013eu. Inokedy maj\u00fa zas probl\u00e9m s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee im nezavolal o\u00a0deviatej, ale a\u017e o\u00a0jeden\u00e1stej. Jednoducho, cel\u00e9 postaven\u00e9 na hlavu. On sa sna\u017e\u00ed ako bl\u00e1zon, no nepom\u00e1ha ni\u010d. Jeho rodi\u010dia \u017eij\u00fa v\u00a0presved\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee v\u0161etko \u010do robia, robia z\u00a0l\u00e1sky. Aj vy m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee to tak nie je? Viete, niektor\u00ed \u013eudia si l\u00e1sku zamie\u0148aj\u00fa za citov\u00e9 vydieranie. Takto by to ale naozaj nemalo by\u0165. Bohu\u017eia\u013e, pr\u00e1ve rodi\u010dia, zvykn\u00fa tak\u00e9to divn\u00e9 veci, robi\u0165 ve\u013emi \u010dasto.\u00a0L\u00e1ska sa ned\u00e1 k\u00fapi\u0165 \u00a0\u010eal\u0161\u00ed zn\u00e1my ma priviedol k\u00a0\u010fal\u0161iemu zisteniu. Mnoh\u00ed rodi\u010dia maj\u00fa dojem, \u017ee si l\u00e1sku svojich det\u00ed m\u00f4\u017eu k\u00fapi\u0165. Nehovor\u00edm v\u0161ak o\u00a0tom, \u017ee svoje die\u0165a sponzoruj\u00fa aj dlho potom, ako dosiahne plnoletos\u0165, zah\u0155\u0148aj\u00fa ho darmi a\u00a0prehnanou pozornos\u0165ou. M\u00e1m na mysli sk\u00f4r pr\u00edpady, kedy sa rodi\u010dia de\u0165om vyhr\u00e1\u017eaj\u00fa t\u00fdm, \u017ee ich \u017eivili a\u00a0oni k\u00a0nim maj\u00fa teraz nejak\u00fa povinnos\u0165. Nie mil\u00ed rodi\u010dia. To, \u017ee sa star\u00e1te o\u00a0svoje deti po\u010das ich detstva, je norm\u00e1lna vec, zariadila to pr\u00edroda a\u00a0vy by ste sa toho mali dr\u017ea\u0165.\u00a0Je to v\u00f4bec l\u00e1ska? \u00a0A\u00a0na z\u00e1ver jedno zamyslenie. M\u00f4\u017eeme e\u0161te hovori\u0165 o\u00a0l\u00e1ske, ke\u010f niekto rob\u00ed veci, ktor\u00e9 som spomenul? Pod\u013ea m\u00f4jho laick\u00e9ho n\u00e1zoru, naozaj nie. Je to v\u0161ak na ka\u017edom z\u00a0v\u00e1s a\u00a0hlavne na v\u00e1s rodi\u010dia. Nesna\u017ete sa svoje die\u0165a citovo vydiera\u0165. Verte, \u017ee takto si ich l\u00e1sku nez\u00edskate. Funguje to presne naopak.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ke\u010f l\u00e1ska, nie je l\u00e1skou","item":"https:\/\/www.agb.sk\/ked-laska-nie-je-laskou\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]